Are You The Passenger Or Driver Of Your Life?

“There are two primary choices in life; to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.” -Denis Waitley Keep this in mind when you are faced with situations that leave you with these two options. In choosing to accept conditions as they exist, you are allowing for other people and things to dictate what happens in your life while you take a passive and helpless stance. When you do that, you become a spectator to the point that you never know when you should step in to take control of your life. When you do accept your role as the person that must change the conditions, you go from allowing other people and things to take control of your life to you being the one that makes the moves and changes things in your life for the better. That will make you feel like the driver of your life versus being a passenger. I remember prior

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Do You Take The Advice Of Your Fears Or Your Confidence?

“Do not take counsel of your fears.” -George S. Patton Keep this in mind when you are faced with how you are going to deal with your fears. As strong as your mind may be, if you take the advice of your fears, you will find yourself quitting and never trying anything new. When you choose to go against that same advice and listen to your confidence, you can overcome your fears and move towards accomplishing your goals and dreams. In moving out on my own for the first time with my wife, when we were dating at the time, I was presented with a situation that had me wondering. She had shared with me that she had quit her job and that the job she was hoping to get did not come through, which left her without any money to put towards the rent for the first month. As you can imagine, the inner fears were creeping in, and

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Are You An Excuse Maker Or a Action Maker?

“If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you’ll find an excuse.” -Unknown Keep this in mind whenever you are deciding how important something or someone may be to you to accomplish or have. When you find yourself not believing that you can or not wanting to do or try something, you will find an excuse that will get you out of it. The results for doing this is that you remaining in your comfort zone, never reaching your potential, and always wondering after the fact if maybe you missed your opportunity. When you find yourself valuing the thing or person that you want, you will look at every way possible to acquire what you need and actually do what it takes to get it. The results for doing this is that you will start to make progress in your life, always opening yourself up for new opportunities, and things and people will attract themselves

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How Do You Change Your Perspective And Watch The Money Flow In?

Someone tells you to come up with two unique products before tomorrow. Where do you turn? Probably the Internet. And if you are like most people you would jump on Reddit or Stumbleupon and try and sift through the never ending webs of the internet spending hours getting sidetracked by ads, pictures of cats, and that YouTube video you watched a month ago that you kind of want to watch again. And 10 minutes before you have to talk about your two new products you’re still trying to think of something or if you’re lucky second-guessing what you did come up with. People turn to the Internet for everything. News. Entertainment. Friends. Love. And the answer to any question is on the Internet. But most of the time you end up staring at a screen for a few hours instead of doing what you set out to do. You just have to know how to use it. If you just

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What Is Stopping You From Reaching Your Dreams?

“The only thing that stops you from reaching your dream, is you.” -Jindavil Keep this in mind whenever you are trying to figure out why you have not reached the goals and dreams you have envisioned for yourself. It is easy to point the finger at other people and things, but the reality is that nobody can affect or stop you unless you give them the power to. In addition, whenever you find yourself doubting your own goals and dreams, it is very likely that you will stop yourself from realizing them. Growing up, I had a cousin who had dreamed of becoming a wrestler one day. We would watch wrestling, talk about wrestling, and even practiced the moves from time to time. As of today, he has not yet realized his potential of becoming that wrestler he had envisioned. It is easy to blame family members who may have doubted him, or the circumstances that he was faced with,

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How Do You Become The Expert?

“The expert in anything was once a beginner.” -Unknown Keep this in mind whenever you are trying to figure out how did a person become good at what they are doing in life. Experts are not exactly born from the womb, nor do they pop out of thin air. To be the expert at anything, you have to become a beginner and start learning. Through learning, planning, action, and adjustments along the way, you start to refine your craft until you eventually become an expert yourself. I can remember growing up wanting to have a successful marriage, but could never figure it out because there were not a lot of them for me to see. In order for me to accomplish this, I had to be a beginner through learning what is the model of a successful marriage from both my uncle and mentor, who both still long and successful marriages.  By asking questions and watching them, I came up

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Why You’re Making The Same Money Everyone Else Makes?

“If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses.” – Henry Ford Are you doing what people want? Are you just creating Excel sheets and filing reports for you boss? Then you are not going to do anything big. Especially not make yourself a fortune. Because if you just do what people say and want then you’re going to get the exact same thing everyone else gets. 40 years behind a desk and a retirement where you still have to worry about money. But if you think like Henry Ford or Steve Jobs then you aren’t looking for what people say they want. You’re looking for something different. Something most people have never considered. Because that’s how you make yourself a fortune. People want safer cars. But most of the automakers never thought that a computer driving a car would be much safer than a human. That’s why someone is going to be getting a

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What’s The Difference Between Positive and Negative Thinking?

“Those who DREAM BIG and THINK positively will grow and prosper. Those who think negatively and refuse to risk will get swallowed up by life.”-Johora Papri Keep this in mind when you find yourself having to decide between thinking positively and dreaming big or thinking negatively and refusing risks. If you choose think negatively and refuse risks, you allow your doubts and fears to set in to where you see things as impossible or difficult. This will result in you never accomplishing anything, finding yourself resentful about life and people, and never realizing your potential. If you choose to think positively and dream big, you allow your confidence and self-esteem to set in to where you see things as possible and easy. This will result in you likely accomplishing your goals, feeling successful about anything you do, and reaching your potential. I remember growing up how often I would bring forth my big dreams and shared my positive outlook with other people. My

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Leaders Make Progress While Followers Stay Still

“Progress occurs when courageous, skillful leaders seize the opportunity to change things for the better.” -Richard vWyk Keep this in mind when you are trying to define progress in your life and determine if you are a leader or a follower. When you do not take advantage of the opportunities that are given to you to make changes, you will continue to remain stuck in your situation and even be upset when other people seem to pass you by. When you decide to be the leader that exists inside of you and take advantage of your opportunities to make changes, you will see how fast people will follow you and how quick things move around you due to the courage, fearlessness, and skill that you show to the world. Nelson Mandela and Mother Teresa were able to achieve progress by having the courage and skill as leaders to change things for the better, and you can see the positive impact they

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What Your Income And Books Have In Common

Books have had a rough couple of years. But now they are back on the rise. And the reason why is the same reason you can earn commissions worth thousands every week from your own computer. Ever since E-readers arrived physical book sales have slid. Big chains like Barnes and Noble and Borders have closed a ton of their stores or completely gone online. And industry experts predicted that as e-Readers capabilities spread physical books would sell less and less until they were not a factor anymore. It makes sense. You can carry a libraries worth of books in your pocket with an E-reader. The only problem with that theory is that this has all happened before and books have always kept selling. When the radio came out people thought it would be the end of the book. The same was said when T.V. spread. But each time the book survived. And now book sales are rising again despite E-readers

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