“One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up, instead of what they have to gain.” -Believe Fitness NY Keep this in mind whenever you find yourself in a position to resist change. If you are only focusing on what you have to give up, you will hold on tighter to the things that keep you in your comfort zone. When you decide to look at what you have to gain, you will take the necessary steps and some risks in order for the change to take you to where you are supposed to be in life. I have seen where people will refuse change because of personal beliefs and what other people have shared with them over time. If there is such a comfort zone with a person, they will not want to leave what they are familiar with. The problem is that if you never leave your comfort zone, you cannot
Power of Positivity
Why Do I Give You Motivation And Inspiration Twice A Day?
“People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well neither does bathing. That’s why we recommend it daily.” Zig Ziglar Keep this in mind whenever you wonder why motivation is needed daily. Motivation can come and go like the fresh smell you get from a daily bath. When you do not have daily baths or daily motivation, your body and mind becomes funky. When you do have daily baths and daily motivation, your body and mind is refreshed. You may wonder why I offer you motivation to you twice a daily on most days. I believe that you can never have enough motivation to keep you going. You may be going through a loss or something bad that can mess up your day, and I want to be able to write something that will let you know you will be fine and you can overcome whatever you choose to in your life. I choose to share my life stories with you as much as I
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How Much Will You Invest In Yourself?
“You cannot receive a positive return on yourself, you have to invest in yourself first.” -Michael J. Fite Keep this in mind whenever you find yourself wondering why you are not seeing the results you seek in your life. If you are willing to take the time to invest into yourself, you will find that what you put into yourself can manifest itself into something greater than you can imagine. When you choose not to invest in yourself, you will find yourself still in the same position as you were before in your life. How do you invest in yourself? There are many ways you can do so, but I will touch on a few common ways. If you have more ways, feel free to add in the comments section and share on your site so that this investment of thoughts can grow. Money is perhaps the #1 way people choose to invest in themselves. The more you are willing to spend
What Makes You One Of A Kind?
“You are one of a kind and you have something great to offer.” Kushandwizdom Keep this in mind whenever you are wondering what is your true value. You are one of a kind because there is nobody in the world that thinks and acts exactly like you. Because you are one of a kind, there are things that only you can think of, say, and do that can bring forth positive change in the world. If you believe you are one of a kind and have something great to offer, I am pleased to see this because you are giving the world something that can benefit everyone: YOU! If you do not feel like you are one of a kind or have something great to offer for whatever reason, I have some questions and insight on who may prevent it, what may prevent it, why you feel this way, and how to over come it. Who can prevent you from feeling
How Can You Help Yourself Become Amazing?
“There are a million ways to be amazing, but you cannot achieve amazing unless you are involved in it.” -Michael J. Fite Keep this in mind when you are find yourself wondering how to be amazing at something. There are a lot of things you can do to get there, but they all require you in order to make it happen. If you do not do anything to bring out the amazing qualities you have, you nor the world will have the opportunity to see what makes you amazing. Everyone wants to amazing at something, but not everyone want to do what it takes to get there. The beauty of doing just a little extra is that you start discovering the little things that make you extraordinary and eventually that translate into you growing into something far beyond what you can imagine. That’s amazing! As a parent, I want to be amazing at being a dad. For me, I did
What Seed Will You Plant Into Your World Today?
“Happiness is something we reap from the seeds we sow. Plant misery seeds and that us what you reap.” -Stephen Richards Keep this in mind whenever you think about what you put out into the world because it truly matters more than what you think. When you plant happiness into your life and the world, you receive happiness back and the world benefits when you have joy in your heart. When you plant misery into your life and the world, you receive misery back and develop a negative outlook on life. The movie ‘Inside Out’ serves as the best example of how your seeds work. I will talk about two of the emotions, how they each affected the main character Riley, and how you can they can impact you. Joy (The Emotion of Happiness): Joy’s job is to plant the seeds of happy thoughts into Riley’s memories. When Riley has such memories, it inspires her to believe in the good
What Are You Doing About Tomorrow Today?
“Spend time today doing something positive and beneficial for your life before you spend tomorrow wishing you did.” -Michael J. Fite Keep this in mind whenever you find yourself wondering if you have time to do something for yourself today. When you take time to do something positive and beneficial for yourself, it makes you feel good about yourself; and it can be the catalyst for either starting something new, continuing on with doing something, or finishing something that you wanted to do. When you put off doing something for yourself today, you miss that opportunity to feed yourself and your goals for that day. If you are doing something positive and beneficial for your life today, I commend you for doing so because it shows that you value yourself and your goals. If you are not doing something today to benefit your life and goals, I must ask you these three questions: Why are you not taking advantage of
What Is Your Definition Of Success?
“Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” -Maya Angelou Keep this in mind whenever you find yourself defining your own success. Success is about you loving and being pleased with who you are. Success is also about you loving the things that bring you happiness in your life. Success is also about you loving the way that you are doing what makes you happy. When you add it all up, your success will have all of this in it! I will go a bit further into the ingredients for your success: Liking yourself is the beginning of your success. Success starts when you begin loving yourself. You can do this easily by saying to yourself “I like/love me” daily. Without loving yourself, you cannot begin to see yourself in the image of the person you want to be. Liking what you do brings you success. This can only happen when you love yourself enough
How Do You Achieve Your Own Freedom?
“In the truest sense, freedom cannot be bestowed; it must be achieved.” -Franklin D. Roosevelt Keep this in mind whenever you are trying to figure out how to achieve freedom from your issues. If you are expecting someone to give you freedom, you will be sad to know that they cannot free you from your issues. The only way you can get the freedom you seek is through you doing what it takes and sticking with the plan that is in place for you. The problem that exists with freedom is similar to money: people want it without having to work for it. This is a big problem because if you expect for something to be free, you do not truly appreciate the value of what you are getting until you have to work for it or it’s gone. When you have to work for it, it has a greater meaning to you to where you value what you have
What Is Your Story?
“Nobody will never know you until you write and tell your own story.”-Michael J. Fite Keep this in mind whenever you find yourself wondering why you should write and tell your own story. If you never write and tell your own story, nobody gets to know the special and unique person that exists in you. When you do write and tell your own story, people get to know and learn about you in a way that gives them a better understanding of your life and how to deal with either you or their own situation. I have some questions to ask you when it comes to your story: What are you afraid of in taking control of the pages and telling your story? Is it fear that nobody will listen? Is it fear that you are not famous or popular? Are you concerned that it will take up too much time or money? Do you fear being exposed? I would
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